by AR » Tue Aug 27, 2002 6:11 am
First Thanks ALL,
Past: Friendofall, hiall
I am for sure he wouldn’t have seen this has problem or felt confidence breach if that girl cared (liked)some one sincerely and things did not worked out as expected and she ended up with him, but the reality is absolutely different to me she is kind of (played)playing with guys, seems she derives some pleasure keeping guys/things under her control, these guys where/are literally begging her to call them and seems she does not care or takes seriously but she keeps in contact with them in an on and off mode, big question is can she changer her attitude after marriage? especially for new brides coming to US internet in only the door of contact to rest of the world(India) !
Inform Family: ehtram
That\'s end of proposal! I know their family for a decade and they are very orthodox, weird thing is my friend is from a wealthy family where as this girl family no where matches them, her pretty face got the proposal ball rolling for wedding! another reason for not communicating to family is they are recovering from a recent family tragedy, and we need more concrete evidence rather then just emails and he his of strong opinion that if he brings this matter into family that\'s the end of marriage he cannot go with that girl, he is very principled and soft guy, rather he\'ll accept her then disclosing to his family, he cannot see his wife having second class treatment from his own family, right now there is no above the parents but down the road can we expect same relationship between parents and daughter in-law?
Neeraj:
I do absolutely agree with you on wife and husband relationship, in regard to true-ness of mails/contents, he logged into his fiancée email to just to find out whether she read his emails and to the worst night mare found the unfortunate stuff, if you say he stepped into her personal life all I can say is it was unintentional! at least if she could have been careful with password he wouldn’t have know the huge secret life she has but the question is for how long she could have kept it as secret?
All:
Other then my friend I am only the person aware about this unfortunate stuff, and we are in big dilemma what to do, we don\'t have any ideas/plans at this point, we are in US don\'t think it would solve or help talking to girl on phone! don\'t know how truthful she would come out even if he talk to her or shall we find more about her talking to the guys she was or is in contact before talking to her? Or shall I suggest him to accept her and be prepared for the worst, but is that worth?