Do intelligent women intimidate guys?

by **Arti** » Fri Nov 26, 2004 11:34 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:
abt HRs...girls in HR dept are usually good to me...i always have problems with the HR guys....dunno why they hate me....

Wow

by **malakpetmasala** » Sat Nov 27, 2004 6:47 am

Arti wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
abt HRs...girls in HR dept are usually good to me...i always have problems with the HR guys....dunno why they hate me....

Wow

yeah... the HR people are sexist

by **san** » Sun Nov 28, 2004 3:26 am

Sharjeel wrote:[quote="sanNope! Me an IT person just like you CAD. HR dept is the first port of contact and I have always found em just fine.

Mebbe becuz u r a girl(?).[/quote]

Maybe because I am a cool girl

Nah, both men & women HR's have been nice to me. No nothing sexual Sharjeel miya!

by **san** » Sun Nov 28, 2004 3:30 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:
san wrote:Nope! Me an IT person just like you CAD. HR dept is the first port of contact and I have always found em just fine.
IT person? cool! what do u do - ie progarmming, testing, designing?

abt HRs...girls in HR dept are usually good to me...i always have problems with the HR guys....dunno why they hate me....

Done progarmming & testing. More recently - IS Analyst - crawling under desks fixing :lol:

Maybe CAD bhai, you intimidate them!!!

by **Arti** » Sun Nov 28, 2004 10:47 pm

san wrote:Done progarmming & testing. More recently - IS Analyst - crawling under desks fixing

I've never known any IS analyst to crawl under anyone's desks :?:

by **malakpetmasala** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 6:23 am

Arti wrote:
san wrote:Done progarmming & testing. More recently - IS Analyst - crawling under desks fixing

I've never known any IS analyst to crawl under anyone's desks

theres is a first time for everything. and i guess this ur first time seeing some thing like this

by **CtrlAltDel** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 12:03 pm

Arti wrote:
san wrote:Done progarmming & testing. More recently - IS Analyst - crawling under desks fixing
I've never known any IS analyst to crawl under anyone's desks

mebbe she's looking for a promotion...

j/k

by **Sharjeel** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 12:16 pm

CAD! You are the limit!

san wrote:
Sharjeel wrote:
san wrote:Nope! Me an IT person just like you CAD. HR dept is the first port of contact and I have always found em just fine.
Mebbe becuz u r a girl(?).

Maybe because I am a cool girl

Nah, both men & women HR's have been nice to me. No nothing sexual Sharjeel miya!

Dang! I was hoping that they be sexist, so that I caould score with the women HRs with my good looks

.

by **san** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 3:27 pm

Yeah yeah whatever! I asked for such comments to roll

by **Sharjeel** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 4:33 pm

san wrote:Yeah yeah whatever! I asked for such comments to roll

Did you? In that case, I'm sorry.

by **akhilis2cool** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 4:52 pm

yay! i can read this thread :!:

by **san** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 5:15 pm

Sharjeel wrote:
san wrote:Yeah yeah whatever! I asked for such comments to roll
Did you? In that case, I'm sorry.

Sorry?

by **CtrlAltDel** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 5:35 pm

san wrote:
Sharjeel wrote:
san wrote:Yeah yeah whatever! I asked for such comments to roll
Did you? In that case, I'm sorry.
Sorry?

hau....sorry kaiko baap?

she herself says that she wanted such comments to roll....

by **san** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 6:00 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:
san wrote:
Sharjeel wrote:
san wrote:Yeah yeah whatever! I asked for such comments to roll
Did you? In that case, I'm sorry.
Sorry?
hau....sorry kaiko baap? she herself says that she wanted such comments to roll....

NO! That's not what I meant ggggrrrrr :evil:

by **Sharjeel** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 6:44 pm

san wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
san wrote:
Sharjeel wrote:
san wrote:Yeah yeah whatever! I asked for such comments to roll
Did you? In that case, I'm sorry.
Sorry?
hau....sorry kaiko baap? she herself says that she wanted such comments to roll....

NO! That's not what I meant ggggrrrrr

Which is the reason for the apology...

by **san** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 7:22 pm

Accepted

by **Sharjeel** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 10:19 pm

Good!

by **CtrlAltDel** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 11:02 pm

but still......

by **Arti** » Thu Dec 02, 2004 11:01 pm

malakpetmasala wrote:
theres is a first time for everything. and i guess this ur first time seeing some thing like this

Oh well if you insist!

by **Lady with the Lamp** » Fri Dec 03, 2004 12:03 am

2 yrs and some months later, and still going strong!! Do people love my thread!

Aloeswood, some parts of ur post are plain philosophical. Didn't understand the part where u said "if we use compassion and NOT love...." though.

As far as men accepting intelligent women as equals is concerned, I have mixed feelings on that. There are some who are honest/gracious enough to admit it, while there are so many who've got egos the size of Everest. A lot depends on the way they've been brought up and their equation/relationship with their moms. A man grows up to respect a woman if he's been taught that/seen it at home. Simple.

Aloeswood wrote: If we look past all of this completely...not attaching anything, especially judgements, we will see ourselves and when we see each human just as we see ourselves, then we realize we are all connected and the same. We are all going through some experience in this life...it is all a journey and the difference between man and woman is pronounced by humans need to categorize everything. If we use compassion....NOT love and pass no judgement on another human being than we can all relax and stop worrying about what role we have to fulfill in society. Lust, jealously...all of these excesses and extremes become insignificant to the compassionate heart. Anyway, because of culture and many other things, I think that men do not mind woman of superior intelligence, but I think if the intelligence is put in the spot light where let's say a wife gets an award over her husband in bio technology when they both work at the same company, there may be a feeling of inferiority. Men have been taught all of their lives to be the woman's protector, so of course, in some situations there may be a feeling of inferiority for some things. Face it, if you are a guy and your wife beats you at an arm wrestle or at a trivia game in front of your friends as a macho guy you will feel a little bruised. But with that said, as the world changes, there are many men who are accepting woman as an equal partner in the world and the gender gap becomes smaller!

by DQ » Fri Dec 03, 2004 11:06 am

Lady with the Lamp wrote:2 yrs and some months later, and still going strong!! Do people love my thread!

Aloeswood, some parts of ur post are plain philosophical. Didn't understand the part where u said "if we use compassion and NOT love...." though.

As far as men accepting intelligent women as equals is concerned, I have mixed feelings on that. There are some who are honest/gracious enough to admit it, while there are so many who've got egos the size of Everest. A lot depends on the way they've been brought up and their equation/relationship with their moms. A man grows up to respect a woman if he's been taught that/seen it at home. Simple.

Aloeswood wrote: If we look past all of this completely...not attaching anything, especially judgements, we will see ourselves and when we see each human just as we see ourselves, then we realize we are all connected and the same. We are all going through some experience in this life...it is all a journey and the difference between man and woman is pronounced by humans need to categorize everything. If we use compassion....NOT love and pass no judgement on another human being than we can all relax and stop worrying about what role we have to fulfill in society. Lust, jealously...all of these excesses and extremes become insignificant to the compassionate heart. Anyway, because of culture and many other things, I think that men do not mind woman of superior intelligence, but I think if the intelligence is put in the spot light where let's say a wife gets an award over her husband in bio technology when they both work at the same company, there may be a feeling of inferiority. Men have been taught all of their lives to be the woman's protector, so of course, in some situations there may be a feeling of inferiority for some things. Face it, if you are a guy and your wife beats you at an arm wrestle or at a trivia game in front of your friends as a macho guy you will feel a little bruised. But with that said, as the world changes, there are many men who are accepting woman as an equal partner in the world and the gender gap becomes smaller!

ANALYZE THE VARIOUS POSTS AND JUSTIFY YOUR COMMENTS ?

by **Arti** » Sun Dec 19, 2004 12:38 am

malakpetmasala wrote:yeah... the HR people are sexist

I'm so late in responding to this one!!! :evil:

How dare you?

by **CtrlAltDel** » Sun Dec 19, 2004 11:50 am

Arti wrote:
malakpetmasala wrote:yeah... the HR people are sexist
I'm so late in responding to this one!!! How dare you?

maybe he meant "sexiest"...????

by **Arti** » Mon Dec 20, 2004 9:29 pm

[quote="CtrlAltDel]maybe he meant "sexiest"...????

[/quote]

how dare you?

by **Sharjeel** » Mon Dec 20, 2004 9:45 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:but still......

lol! You want me to roll another one?

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