How do we avoid hateful feelings between people?

[ravi]

Yes. What are all the signs? Between a husband and a wife, between lovers, between classmates? What are all your experiences and lessons? Please share all. The aim of this board to derive lessons from our personal experiences.

[Purushothama]

Ravi, having raked up the subject, can you say what your experience in this matter is?

[d]

I would say its more of anger rather than hate we get to feel twds our relatives. So, if you are suggesting how do we get to not be angry with our mother, father, sister, brother, wife, husband etc.. it is simple. We get to sit with them and talk. plain and straight fwd.

[V]

To continue the above posting, when we talk, remember to listen for atleast 50% of the time. Thats \'coz communication means talking AND listening too. Everyone may be great talkers, but are terrible listeners. Ego is human\'s worst nightmare and enemy. Somehow got to burn it. One technique is to leave the place or stop talking when a person is angry.