Love Marriage vs Arranged Marriage

[rs]

hey all!
what do u think is the best? i feel arranged one are okay.
love marriages... parents.. lovers... suffering, fighting... even then we have divorces... a lot of misunderstanding.. then where is love?
instead we can have love life after marriage...
what do u say?

[a well wisher]

so be it, if u choose it be an arranged too, u shud, but get to know the woman/man before u even get engaged. and that is possible if u can meet often and get to know each other over a period of time, say 3-6 months atleast. They call this dating, it need not be outside of home, if either of u do not feel comfy abt\' that. U know the reasons , rigth. generally, once somebody sees especially a woman with another man, it is girlfriend/boyfriends stuff. It need not be so, in ur case. u just get to know her as far as possible these several months and then u both decide. but one thing for sure, u all(both u and the girl and ur respective families) have to be very straight and plain with each other. ur intention is to get the best for all of u. so no just being nice. u got to le tthem know and vice versa all abt ur personal issues too. Ofcourse, it takes some time for u to get there, right? so\'s the time that i mentioned, that u need to know abt\' the girl/boy. all the best.

[neeraja]

You love and marry, and marry and love, both concept basically is the bondage called love... if love is there, there is harmony, no matter if its love marriage or marriage after love... ultimately love is the key

[coolgyan]

what if you find out one fine day that your spouse and you are not compatible at all. there are a thousand things that can go wrong (bad breath, cleanliness, sex.. ) will you still fall in love..????