daisy wrote:you dont know the reasons behind every working women. and it is none of your business if she just works for her career or what ever reasons. the point is if she is supporting her family financially along with her husband, why not the husband support her with house work as well?
and again this is not the case with every family though. there are people who help out each other both in careers and home.
First of all thanks for digging that thread up totally out of context. I will go down this road just this one time, and defend what I said.
I am all for equality of the sexes. In fact, I truly believe that women are wasting their time by claiming equality to men. I think they are far superior to men, and that is something that most men are now beginning to realise. Those men who do not will do so in time. Till then, they will just rot in hell.
Again, I am not questioning the motives behind a woman working. Hell, I have a working mother and I never felt that I was missing out on something that my friends whose mothers were housewives did not miss out on. And, if you ask me, I know that only a woman is capable of juggling a career and a home effectively. Men just screw up.
That said, it is the whining that totally gets to me. So, you are a career woman who has to manage a household. Big deal. There are countless others who do it without any hassles. Why should you be the one to complain? It is a bit like PMS. During that time it is like women get a licence to act weird and difficult. Everything is blamed on hormones. Hello! Like you are the only one to go through with this. Half the world goes through with it. God makes you go through with it because he knows that men would royally suck at it.
And that is my only bone. I have never stated what women should not work. I have never stated that they should be confined to the four walls. I have not stated all that because I do not believe in those theories. I think the world would be a lot more balanced place to live in if more women held high positions. In fact, whenever it has been in my powers I have been very supportive of a woman taking up a position provided she had the qualifications for it.
Yes, I do stand by all that I said in my previous post. But, is any of it indicative of my being as horrible as I am made out to be? Seriously, if a man prefers his wife to not work I do not see anything wrong with that. What is definitely wrong is if he does not let her. Even if he does not like it, he should be encouraging and let her do her thing.
These are just some of the things that I believe in. They might be contrary to what you believe in. Just because we have opposing views it does not mean that either of us is right or wrong. It is just a difference of opinion to a subject as profound as the meaning of life itself.