Who shud make the first move

by **Cragg** » Sat Jun 24, 2006 7:41 pm

Be it a relation or just friendship, online, offline, real or whatever, work ....everywhere the guys are expected to make the first move.

even if it means.

Is it because only guys have the guts , bravery, honesty , truthfulness, ................................or just because being a guy brings the responsibility of taking all risks.

by **Niky** » Sat Jun 24, 2006 9:55 pm

nope its not always tht.. girls also make the first move.. k of course its like the guys are expected but not coz girls have no guts!

by **mAnOmAn** » Sun Jun 25, 2006 2:18 pm

In these kind of situations, guys are always expected to be the BAKRA.

No first moves , no emotions , no betrayals ,No heart breaks, aches, no consequences, no after effects.................. NO LIFE

it needs courage to do that (or u can call it stupidity too.)

The greatest test of courage on the earth is to bear defeat without losing heart.

and if both wait for either one to make the first move then it will be the same old story .

by **Cragg** » Tue Jun 27, 2006 12:07 pm

Well In my case I made not just the first move. But All the moves

And Till Now I i Am the one who has to always take the initiative.

Isnt it just Coz I have guts , or I am Brave, Honest ......(all superlatives).

Others need to be trained to make moves or need to be pushed around.

Well atleast now somebody make a move.

If anybody thought i was talking abt my relationship, then please be informed I am Talking abt my job .

by **Nyx!** » Tue Jun 27, 2006 3:42 pm

thanx for that clarification at the bottom of ur post.... i was wondering that u ve already informed in one of the posts that u r out of relationships then whats this about "making moves "... :twisted:

by **Cragg** » Tue Jun 27, 2006 9:11 pm

Nyx! wrote:thanx for that clarification at the bottom of ur post.... i was wondering that u ve already informed in one of the posts that u r out of relationships then whats this about "making moves "...

"Out of relationships " U must have missed some parts of my post then.

" out of purview of relationships" wud be precise.

And gud going hope u achieve ur daily target .

“To be sure of hitting the target, shoot first, and call whatever you hit 'the target' ”

by **Nyx!** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 12:24 pm

Cragg wrote:
Nyx! wrote:thanx for that clarification at the bottom of ur post.... i was wondering that u ve already informed in one of the posts that u r out of relationships then whats this about "making moves "...

"Out of relationships " U must have missed some parts of my post then.

" out of purview of relationships" wud be precise.

And gud going hope u achieve ur daily target .

“To be sure of hitting the target, shoot first, and call whatever you hit 'the target' ”

tu jahan jahan chalega .. mera saaya saath hoga. . . :wink:

by **Cragg** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 12:28 pm

Nyx! wrote:
Cragg wrote:
Nyx! wrote:thanx for that clarification at the bottom of ur post.... i was wondering that u ve already informed in one of the posts that u r out of relationships then whats this about "making moves "...

"Out of relationships " U must have missed some parts of my post then.

" out of purview of relationships" wud be precise.

And gud going hope u achieve ur daily target .

“To be sure of hitting the target, shoot first, and call whatever you hit 'the target' ”

tu jahan jahan chalega .. mera saaya saath hoga. . .

Jo bahenge tere aansuu :cry:

mera rumaal saath Hoga.

by **Fun Kay** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 1:36 pm

sab log itna senti kyu hain re....

***sob***sob***

it's contagious...(!Nyx...spellcheck that one for me pls!!!)

by **Bimbette** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 3:16 pm

Who should make the first move?

If it's the start of a relationship, it should be the guy, of course!

In other cases like work, who makes the first move is of no consequence. If you take the initiative to get a job done it reflects more on the kind of person you are. Gender doesn't make a difference there.

"Is it because only guys have the guts , bravery, honesty , truthfulness, ................................or just because being a guy brings the responsibility of taking all risks."

What's the connection?

by **Nyx!** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 5:39 pm

Fun Kay wrote:sab log itna senti kyu hain re....

***sob***sob***

it's contagious...(!Nyx...spellcheck that one for me pls!!!)

No errors .. . :wink:

senti nahin ho rahe hain rey... ek doosre ki tang kheench rahe hain :twisted:

by **labelle** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 6:13 pm

whatever the need is the first move should be from the person who has the thing listed as the top priority. be it job,home,lovelife and for the matter of fact any and everything. i would not hesitate if i want something because if i do so i would regret that for the rest of my life which i dont want to! so whatever the case is whatever come at the top of the list should be given importance.

by **Cragg** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 6:28 pm

labelle wrote:whatever the need is the first move should be from the person who has the thing listed as the top priority. be it job,home,lovelife and for the matter of fact any and everything. i would not hesitate if i want something because if i do so i would regret that for the rest of my life which i dont want to! so whatever the case is whatever come at the top of the list should be given importance.

Given a choice , doing something and regretting: or regret not doing it.

wht wud u d...

by **labelle** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 6:33 pm

Cragg wrote:Given a choice , doing something and regretting: or regret not doing it.

wht wud u d...

i would never regret a thing that i have done ever in my life as the decesion taken would be the best depending on the circumstances at that time . i would regret not doing it!!!

by **Cragg** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 6:49 pm

labelle wrote:
Cragg wrote:Given a choice , doing something and regretting: or regret not doing it.

wht wud u d...

i would never regret a thing that i have done ever in my life as the decesion taken would be the best depending on the circumstances at that time . i would regret not doing it!!!

Hmm No Regrets...........

No regrets is usually a sign of bad memory

by **labelle** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 6:58 pm

i guess u havent read the post properly i said i wouldnt regret a decesion taken because it would be based upon the circumstances at that time and the decesion would be based on what i could do best at that time. i would not regret a decesion taken in the past now as i cannot go in the past and ammend it. what is there in my hands right now is the present and i would make the best out of it. as far as memory goes i for sure have a good memory! :wink:

by **Cragg** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 7:17 pm

labelle wrote:i guess u havent read the post properly i said i wouldnt regret a decesion taken because it would be based upon the circumstances at that time and the decesion would be based on what i could do best at that time. i would not regret a decesion taken in the past now as i cannot go in the past and ammend it. what is there in my hands right now is the present and i would make the best out of it. as far as memory goes i for sure have a good memory!

Reading is one of the things I am best at. I got ur point but........

regret is not just regretting abt mistakes , sometimes its abt other things also

“Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.”

by **labelle** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 7:27 pm

Cragg wrote:
Reading is one of the things I am best at. I got ur point but........

regret is not just regretting abt mistakes , sometimes its abt other things also

“Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.”

if i do something that i feel has hurt someone then i would not hesitate to say sorry and make sure that i dont do it anymore

by **Cragg** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 7:32 pm

labelle wrote:
Cragg wrote:
Reading is one of the things I am best at. I got ur point but........

regret is not just regretting abt mistakes , sometimes its abt other things also

“Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.”

if i do something that i feel has hurt someone then i would not hesitate to say sorry and make sure that i dont do it anymore

So did u count ur sorries till now?

by **labelle** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 7:39 pm

havent kept the count !!!!!!!!

by **Cragg** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 7:40 pm

labelle wrote:havent kept the count !!!!!!!!

sign of bad memory

by **labelle** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 7:44 pm

ummmmmmmmm thats sarcastic :shock:

by **Cragg** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 7:49 pm

labelle wrote:ummmmmmmmm thats sarcastic

“Sarcasm: intellect on the offensive”

But I m not on offensive with neone. Just sarcasm for fun like

by **labelle** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 7:55 pm

may be this one would be an appropriate one for u

by **Cragg** » Wed Jun 28, 2006 7:59 pm

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