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What Qualities do u want in ur Life partner?

Postby VJ » Tue Jul 11, 2006 3:15 pm

Gone r the days when parents would select a boy or a girl for their childs life partner. Instead these days people are looking for some specific qualities in their life partner. Some how try to define your life partner or try to imagine your life partner and put the qualities out here. Even the married are also welcome to put in their opinions from their experience and help the ones who are still looking for :lol: .

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Postby Cragg » Tue Jul 11, 2006 9:04 pm

U never get what u want ,but u always get what u deserve,
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Postby VJ » Tue Jul 11, 2006 9:34 pm

U never get what u want ,but u always get what u deserve


Then thats a compromise, not a marriage.

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Postby Cragg » Wed Jul 12, 2006 6:16 pm

VJ wrote:
U never get what u want ,but u always get what u deserve


Then thats a compromise, not a marriage.

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Marriage :compromises .

I think these two words shud be married :lol:
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Re: Qualities

Postby Fun Kay » Wed Jul 12, 2006 6:19 pm

VJ wrote:
U never get what u want ,but u always get what u deserve


Then thats a compromise, not a marriage.

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Re: Qualities

Postby Cragg » Wed Jul 12, 2006 6:22 pm

Fun Kay wrote:
VJ wrote:
U never get what u want ,but u always get what u deserve


Then thats a compromise, not a marriage.

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If its justice then it is Blind towards the men,

and blindly for the women.
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Postby Fun Kay » Wed Jul 12, 2006 6:30 pm

not in all cases...
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Postby Cragg » Wed Jul 12, 2006 6:39 pm

Fun Kay wrote:not in all cases...


U mean in 98.5% cases?
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Postby Fun Kay » Wed Jul 12, 2006 6:42 pm

Cragg wrote:
Fun Kay wrote:not in all cases...


U mean in 98.5% cases?
y r u so convinced that all women are hideous creatures who's sole aim is to take advantage of men???
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Postby Cragg » Wed Jul 12, 2006 7:17 pm

Fun Kay wrote:
Cragg wrote:
Fun Kay wrote:not in all cases...


U mean in 98.5% cases?
y r u so convinced that all women are hideous creatures who's sole aim is to take advantage of men???


1.5% is a big Number -see i am still positive
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What qualities do u want in ur life partner?

Postby VJ » Wed Jul 12, 2006 8:55 pm

Fun Kay Wrote
it's not compromise....that's justice...
If it's justice then I don't accept it. Iam the judge of my own destiny :twisted: .
By the way I haven't seen anyone mentioning the qualities of their life partner. May be I should start giving some examples for both sex(boy/girl) like
1) Loving
2) Caring
3) Educated
4) Modern
5) Beautiful/Handsome enough
6) Paise wala/li ho
7) Hatta Katta/tti ho
8) Good sense of humour
9) Good Cook
10) Understanding
11) Brave & Bold
12)Self/Good decision maker
13) Responsible

Etc etc ..... Now u guys go on putting some.......

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Re: What qualities do u want in ur life partner?

Postby paris_dakar » Fri Jul 14, 2006 12:47 pm

VJ wrote:Fun Kay Wrote
it's not compromise....that's justice...
If it's justice then I don't accept it. Iam the judge of my own destiny :twisted: .
By the way I haven't seen anyone mentioning the qualities of their life partner. May be I should start giving some examples for both sex(boy/girl) like
1) Loving
2) Caring
3) Educated
4) Modern
5) Beautiful/Handsome enough
6) Paise wala/li ho
7) Hatta Katta/tti ho
8) Good sense of humour
9) Good Cook
10) Understanding
11) Brave & Bold
12)Self/Good decision maker
13) Responsible

Etc etc ..... Now u guys go on putting some.......

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perfect...for you or for general cosumption?
If you got married outside of the arranged loop, then you should have found someone like that.
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Postby VJ » Fri Jul 14, 2006 2:11 pm

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If you got married outside of the arranged loop, then you should have found someone like that.
PLease explain......

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Re: What qualities do u want in ur life partner

Postby paris_dakar » Sat Jul 15, 2006 7:11 am

VJ wrote:Paris_dakar Wrote
If you got married outside of the arranged loop, then you should have found someone like that.
PLease explain......

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your list. if its a joke...then you were too subtle for me but if you are serious...good luck!

apart from that, i didn't assume you were already married but thats how i sounded like. what i was trying to say is that if you find your girl out of the arranged marriage loop then you should be able to find someone like that, that is, if you believe some people on this board.
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Postby VJ » Sat Jul 15, 2006 10:34 am

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apart from that, i didn't assume you were already married but thats how i sounded like.
I'm not married yet :o .
your list. if its a joke...then you were too subtle for me but if you are serious...good luck!
It's not a joke. I was just trying to get the opinions of the people on how a life partner should be?Thanx anyways :) .

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Postby Mohd Asif Ali » Sat Jul 15, 2006 6:02 pm

Hey....
Is there any one to find out the suaitable girl for me if i tell the qualities i like to be in my life partner.
All help is verymuch appreciated. :D
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Postby VJ » Sat Jul 15, 2006 9:33 pm

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Hey.Is there any one to find out the suaitable girl for me if i tell the qualities i like to be in my life partner.
All help is verymuch appreciated. Very Happy
Y don't u register urself in some of the matchmaker websites like http://www.shadhi.com, http://www.bharatmatrimony.com, http://www.jeevansathi.com etc etc. :P

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Postby VJ » Sat Jul 15, 2006 9:41 pm

No body is acting like brokers here :evil: . So please .......
BY the way some of the websites which I mentioned may not work, search for the same in http://www.google.com :) ,
Put the qualities u r looking for....
None of the experienced(married) replied, I guess they are happy with their partners. Come onnnnnnn everyone.........:roll:

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Postby paris_dakar » Sun Jul 16, 2006 10:24 pm

So VJ,

you do know that the attributes mentioned in your list are subjective, don't you? You can't go around passing this list without letting the potential candidate know how you look vis-a-vis those same attributes. things work out when you realise that man and woman are complementary...i.e complete each other.
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Postby VJ » Sun Jul 16, 2006 11:12 pm

paris_dakar wrote:So VJ,

you do know that the attributes mentioned in your list are subjective, don't you? You can't go around passing this list without letting the potential candidate know how you look vis-a-vis those same attributes. things work out when you realise that man and woman are complementary...i.e complete each other.
It's really tough to find the qualities in ur partner in just one look or a meeting especially in a country like India. I'm not really sure how people select their life partners. Howcome the arranged marriages in India are a success? :?: Ofcourse complementing each other plays a vital role as you said. But u r never far away dreaming about ur life partner and the qualities he/she should have...... :wink:

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Postby Mohd Asif Ali » Mon Jul 17, 2006 10:27 am

Hi.... VJ
I thought you are from a matrimony company and collecting feedback to find the suitable person for them. ..... Hahahah
just kidding.... go a head .... best of luck.... i wish you to get a lot of feedback.
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Postby VJ » Mon Jul 17, 2006 10:56 am

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Re: Qualities in ur life partner

Postby paris_dakar » Tue Jul 18, 2006 9:50 am

VJ wrote:
paris_dakar wrote:So VJ,

you do know that the attributes mentioned in your list are subjective, don't you? You can't go around passing this list without letting the potential candidate know how you look vis-a-vis those same attributes. things work out when you realise that man and woman are complementary...i.e complete each other.
It's really tough to find the qualities in ur partner in just one look or a meeting especially in a country like India. I'm not really sure how people select their life partners. Howcome the arranged marriages in India are a success? :?: Ofcourse complementing each other plays a vital role as you said. But u r never far away dreaming about ur life partner and the qualities he/she should have...... :wink:

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well it could go either way arrnged marriages. previously if it ddin't work out you were condemned to live with it anyway..now divorce has come to be an option making a mockery of every vow one takes during marriage. Personally, divorce is not an option, its a last resort. anyway, when your parents look for a girl they are not gonna pick up the first girl they see are they? how well do your parents know you... people bash arranged marriages to high hell on these boards but i beg to differ. the success of an aranged marriage as a relationship depends on hoow involved you are with the process. if you want a mail order bride ..you are in for trouble. ulitmately you pick the girl that matches your list the most whether you meet her by way of your parents or at a bar or ina strip club!

but why in the hell are you asking all this? you don't know what they do to you!!!! if your're not pushing 35 don't worry about it jus jerk it off or whatever you can do abou it....:)
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Re: Qualities in ur life partner

Postby VJ » Tue Jul 18, 2006 11:10 am

Paris_dakar Wrote
but why in the hell are you asking all this? you don't know what they do to you!!!! if your're not pushing 35 don't worry about it jus jerk it off or whatever you can do abou it....:)
I'm not pushing 35. I'm still 28+. I'm asking this since I have seen two different parts of the world and the variances in the culture, lifestyle, and the way they settle down. And why not I was wondering whats required in ur life partner afterall she is gonna share ur life. :wink:

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