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Broken Heart wrote:Well Zorro7, I have waited patiently...I Guess!!! If she is married the next day...it's true that she is having affair well in advance, in that case she would have told me before. Having trusted her I wasted my percious time...don't you think so.
"Well Zorro7, I have waited patiently...I Guess!!! If she is married the next day...it's true that she is having affair well in advance, in that case she would have told me before. Having trusted her I wasted my percious time...don't you think so
Broken Heart wrote:This is my true story. I was engaged to a girl 2 yrs back, before heading for higher studies and when I am back to India for marriage, after successful completion of my studies, I had a huge shock in my life!!! She said I am not willing to marry you.
Before engagement I told her, that it will take time as I am going for higher studies and marriage is only possible after my completion of studies, she said ok...and we had wonderful exchange of words and promises in these 2 yrs, and when I am finally back to get married she said no. I was bit amazed at that point, but I was not sure as to what the reason was. As she told this news when our parents and there parents are trying to fix the auspicious day for marriage, I sensed that this was not the right time to ask her to explain the reason, see I was still believing her, as expected there parents were scolding her. So i asked her to meet me the next day and justify the reason for saying no.
To my suprise I was told the next day, that she is married to a colleague at her workplace.
I am really suprised by this act. I heard many stories about NRI's breaking the relationships, but I guess it's the other way now. Is this the new trend of India...
Broken Heart wrote:Before engagement I told her, that it will take time as I am going for higher studies and marriage is only possible after my completion of studies, she said ok...and we had wonderful exchange of words and promises in these 2 yrs, and when I am finally back to get married she said no. I was bit amazed at that point, but I was not sure as to what the reason was. As she told this news when our parents and there parents are trying to fix the auspicious day for marriage, I sensed that this was not the right time to ask her to explain the reason, see I was still believing her, as expected there parents were scolding her. So i asked her to meet me the next day and justify the reason for saying no.
To my suprise I was told the next day, that she is married to a colleague at her workplace.
wiredbeats wrote:
Don't blame the culture...culture is fine the problem is with you. You just can't do some advance booking with human beings man!!..they are not show tickets to stay all the time
Zorro7 wrote:?s the meaning of engagement .... dude ...
lol..
exhydi wrote:You really have to wonder...this girl was engaged to you for 2 yrs, kept in touch with you actively and THEN say no when both sets of parents are present? Two things pop into mind.
- How come she didn't say no BEFORE the meeting and spare the embarrasment to everyone.
- She has SOME guts to say it in front of everyone!
FT wrote:Life's travesties sometime are not problems, they are opportunities to learn something new.
I is for Ediot wrote:I suggested “A” slap not “beating the crap out of her until she bleeds” on a regular basis. Now that would have been violence. A slap is something that hurts the pride more than anything and in Broken Hearts case his action would have been more justifiable for being cunningly deceived for two long years.
I is eloquent wrote:She has no excuse wasting 2 years of your life fully knowing the outcome of how your engagement would end. If you ever get a chance to meet her, I recommend you give her a heartfelt sincere slap. Get it ALL out.
I is eloquent wrote:Many will whine about "never hit a girl" philosophy but to tell the truth, if they want equality with men then they need to step up to the plate and stop whining about getting slapped for the sh1t they pull sometimes.
Portuguese Man-Of-War wrote:Given that we've heard only Broken Heart's version, if that is true, the girl has committed a serious crime.
Portuguese Man-Of-War wrote:When a person is robbed, he does not suffer for years in suicidal depression - he recovers in a few days. The robber still gets several months to several years in prison.
When someone is murdered, he does not suffer for years in suicidal depression - the murderer still gets 14 years, or even death.
There are zillions of crimes listed in the IPC for which punishments are prescribed, and very few of them come close to the trauma caused to the victim that a heartbreak can result in. In addition, the victim becomes unproductive, screws up his career or studies, and becomes a pain to his near and dear ones because of this, extending the misery.
Broken Heart wrote:I is eloquent wrote:She has no excuse wasting 2 years of your life fully knowing the outcome of how your engagement would end. If you ever get a chance to meet her, I recommend you give her a heartfelt sincere slap. Get it ALL out.
Yes, I am doing it for sure from the bottom of my heart.I is eloquent wrote:Many will whine about "never hit a girl" philosophy but to tell the truth, if they want equality with men then they need to step up to the plate and stop whining about getting slapped for the sh1t they pull sometimes.
That was my attitude earlier "never hit a girl", and she knows it too. But using this to her advantage made me change my attitude. If I don't act accordingly she thinks its OK to dump somebody just like that without justification.
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