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Nessa wrote:hi
I need some positive advise...I am a hindu girl for south africa and in love with a muslim guy. we have been together for the past 7 years. Our wedding date has been set for this October...but had to be put on hold due to his family
whilst we were together, we have decided to keep our respective religions, but please the family by having a small hindu and muslim wedding. my family knew all bout this... but his didnt have any idea. then all the questions from his family started...they wanted to know when i was going to convert...it was his plan to stay quite about the whole thing... i was against it and wanted them to no.
his mum was always sweet with me and always asked in a nice way and i always evaded from it. my bfriend always told me not to worry and that his mum will be fine with everything. his mum seems to be the quite 1 but its his brothers, they are always questioning him.
recently he went to his brothers place for a wedding and that is when all hell broke lose...they told him that it is a sin for us to be together and that he must chose between me and them(Family)...
his brothers wife called me to say that if i didnt convert, there is no way we can get married, and if he did marry me he is not be a muslim, he would also not beable to touch his mothers body when she dies... what i dont understand is that he is not leaving his religion so how can he not be a muslim....is this true...they have twister his mind so much. my entire life is put on hold because he has to make a decision.
i do realise that which ever 1 he chooses... he will still lose 1.
the problem has been happening for the past week... but the bond between us is so strong and he does not want to let just as much as me.
is anybody out there that can help...are some of the things his familys saying is true?
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