To Drink/Smoke or Not?

[Cragg]

Smokers Lungs

[CTC]

You have every right to do what you like and you should be comfortable satisfied with what ever you do so that u are your self not governed by others. U need to improve your scocial cricle to come out of boredom.

[Cragg]

Relax there is treatment available .

[Cragg]

I am not scared of these things since I can quit anyday.

[Cragg]

The Ulitmate thrill : I aim

[VJ]

Oh my god! Those pictures are really scaring. May be I should reconsider if I really have to smoke or not after watching those nerve shaking pictures.



@VJ

[akshay]

Oh my god! Those pictures are really scaring. May be I should reconsider if I really have to smoke or not after watching those nerve shaking pictures.

@VJ

Thats it? I thought cig smoking was macho:-)

[paris_dakar]

Giving up smoking is the easiest thing , I have done that a lot of times.

I do it everyday!!!

[VJ]

Paris_Dakar Wrote

I do it everyday!!!

Very Funny...

@VJ[/quote]

[Max]

Yaar VJ !!!



Lets sit together for a booze and talk over the problems that you are facing in life. I can be your good friend(as we have a few things in common)



And yeah smoking is very bad for health......... do as 'paris_dakar'

does........... quit it everyday

[VJ]

Sorry Max I discussed my personal problems with some of my best friends before. They just SOLD my problems to someone else just to insult me . I don't want to discuss anymore. Pls don't mind. Rather I am thinking to start a new life somewhere else eventhough the problems might follow me where ever I go, but still varies my daily routine atleast giving me a sigh of relief.



My depression may be leading to some different habits. Smoking/Drinking are some of them. Iam not sure what kind of habits Iam gonna cultivate more in my life. For now I'm smoking/drinking, and when my brain starts thinking of the incidents, it gets worse sometimes . Lets face it. It's part of human life.



@VJ

[Max]

Yaar......... whom will i tell about you ?



I dont know anyone who knows you.



I am just trying to help you out......... maybe give advice........... maybe console.......... maybe help you in life.



Still........ if you dont like it, then i am sorry man !!!!



just chill and take care.

[VJ]

Pls don't take it otherwise. Iam not in the greatest of the moods to booze and discuss my past problems. Thanx anyways.



@VJ

[fn]

wht abt no booze nd jst discussion?

[VJ]

It tough to get on with the strangers for me . Thanx anyways.



@VJ

[MAX]

It tough to get on with the strangers for me . Thanx anyways.

@VJ

So you don't socialize much ???

[VJ]

U caught me right . To be frank I lost my trust in people around . Thats the main reason.



@VJ

[VJ]

I started to smoke the light cigarettes to the regular ones since I was feeling something going wrong in the stomach with the strong/regular ones. But couldn't stop smoking completely. When I pass by the shop after drinking tea my foot automatically walks towards it............. it became a routine now



@VJ

[VJ]

I started to smoke the light cigarettes to the regular ones since I was feeling something going wrong in the stomach with the strong/regular ones. But couldn't stop smoking completely. When I pass by the shop after drinking tea my foot automatically walks towards it............. it became a routine now



@VJ

[HH]

Regarding "Smoke" >>>>>

- Poga Taaga Vachchaa? / May I Smoke?
- Aggi Pulla Miidii, Katte Miidii ... Kaashtamuu Miidey ... Mii Ishtam Vachchinatlu Tagala Bettukondi! ... / Matchstick yours, Fag Yours ... Body YOURS ... You're FREE to Burn / Fire Them As You Like ...

[VJ]

Regarding "Smoke" >>>>>

- Poga Taaga Vachchaa? / May I Smoke?
- Aggi Pulla Miidii, Katte Miidii ... Kaashtamuu Miidey ... Mii Ishtam Vachchinatlu Tagala Bettukondi! ... / Matchstick yours, Fag Yours ... Body YOURS ... You're FREE to Burn / Fire Them As You Like ...

Hahahaha I don't want to burn myself. I want to get rid of it, but unable to do it.



@VJ

[arkaay]

Hello All,



Just joined the forum. Read some great posts.



VJ,

I have done smoking/drinking too just to be "in" the group. I have given up smoking and drinking both some time ago and it does affect some friendships for a while in that you don't get invited to some of the parties.

If you ask me honestly, smoking and drinking are not the problems , they are just a way to distract yourself from the real problems/issues you have.

I have been reading some self help books recently and the one I liked the most is by Bertrand Russell. It's called 'the conquest of happiness'



I can summarize a few of the things from the book.



1) Don't analyze too much about yourself , the meaning of life and how the world operates.

2) Take up some activity that removes the focus from yourself. That is, get busy doing something that you can enjoy and totally forget abt other things.

3) Try out 10 different things. small achievements boost morale and in turn make you confident in confronting other problems.

3) Don't believe people who tell you life is complicated. Life can be as simple as you make it to be.



Hope this helps.



krishna

[HH]

Welcome, arkaay! ... Good Advise ... Maaneyaalani Manusu Antey Maargam Sugamam! ... "Will Shapes Action!" ... YOUR Will Helps Firm Action!

[VJ]

Hello All,

Just joined the forum. Read some great posts.

VJ,
I have done smoking/drinking too just to be "in" the group. I have given up smoking and drinking both some time ago and it does affect some friendships for a while in that you don't get invited to some of the parties.
If you ask me honestly, smoking and drinking are not the problems , they are just a way to distract yourself from the real problems/issues you have.
I have been reading some self help books recently and the one I liked the most is by Bertrand Russell. It's called 'the conquest of happiness'

I can summarize a few of the things from the book.

1) Don't analyze too much about yourself , the meaning of life and how the world operates.
2) Take up some activity that removes the focus from yourself. That is, get busy doing something that you can enjoy and totally forget abt other things.
3) Try out 10 different things. small achievements boost morale and in turn make you confident in confronting other problems.
3) Don't believe people who tell you life is complicated. Life can be as simple as you make it to be.

Hope this helps.

krishna

Hi Aarkay/Krishna,



The difference between me and u is U only read the books, but I read the books as well as my life. As far as taking some activity is concerned, I'm waiting for my tickets to fly away from here. I'm no more interested in living here for my personal reasons. I don't believe in others, I believe in myself. No more analysing, only operating Thainx anyways...I'm sure I'm gonna quit smoking one day, drinking I want to keep it occasional:)



@VJ

[arkaay]

Good Luck VJ.