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by Akshay » Sat Jun 24, 2006 7:17 pm

Have any of you, males included, been groped, or groped, females included, in a bus/theater/... in hyderabad? Just wondering how common it is. For a perspective, apparently it is a very big nuisance for the females travelling in new york subway. And, surprise of surprises, the victims here too do not react for the same reported reasons as the victims in hyderabad: sense of violation, shame and helplessness. I guess some instincts transcend cultures and nations.



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by Cragg » Sun Jun 25, 2006 7:46 pm

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Waht Men being groped????????? :? :?
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by Nyx! » Mon Jun 26, 2006 9:32 am

shuda been.. ever been groped or groped anyone ... nai?
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by Akshay » Mon Jun 26, 2006 11:41 am

Yes, Nyx..you are right. That was the intention, as clarified in the details. I apologize for the inadvertent restriction in the subject. Please post your experience in this regard.
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by Nyx! » Mon Jun 26, 2006 12:02 pm

well.. i can narrate one such from my grad days..



i was traveling in a bus from i dunno where to my place ... standing in a jampacked bus... and there was this guy.. middle aged ... touching my thigh :evil: and the expression on his face was like who sez i m doing ne thing to the girl standing next to me... the bus stopped n v (i was wiht my sisters) got down and the guy got down too.. i turned back and slapped him across his face... lekin jo dialogue uske baad nikla mere muh se makes me laugh today.. badi izzat se maine kaha .. aap mere baap ki umar ke lagrain.. .sharam nai aati aisa karteve... i dunno y i used "aap" shud have used choicest of abuses... .n he was like main kisi farishtey ka apmaan kar rahi hoon... *@#**#*@ :evil: :evil:
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by Akshay » Mon Jun 26, 2006 11:33 pm

I myself have never groped in a bus, but remember the only instance when I did something close to it. I was in delhi when I was 14. One day I was riding my bicycle back from the market and saw a girl walking by alone in a dark alley . Maybe she was under 17. Patted her back while riding past.. I guess that scared the poor girl a lot. Then I rode back towards her to apologize, but realised that she was more scared seeing me turn back, so left her alone. Got me to realize how vulnerable she was in that situation, how unreasonable it was for her to not shout for help, and how obnoxious I was in taking undue advantage of the situation.
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by Arch » Tue Jun 27, 2006 12:01 am

I would have had scores of such situations in my lifetime. Once my friends and I were travelling by bus in Hyderabad. I was wearing pointed heels. A man started groping. I stood on his toes with the pointed heel on his toes. He gasped, took out his hand, put it on his mouth, helplessly so that he wont scream, tears flowing down, looking at me, pleading silently. I did not think I needed to be compassionate on any grounds. Believe me, I am a very compassionate person. I used to volunteer at Mother Theresa's. So..

and I did not budge until he limped down at the next stop.



Saaala. haraamzaada. uski baap ki jaagir hai samjha kya? gadhe ki aulad, phir kabhi kissi lady in heels ko grop nahi kara hoga, uski life time mein.



yes, akshay, we feel terribly voilated. we feel very angry and helpless. we feel like gouging such man's eyes and feeding him then and there. I wish I had that capacity then. One of the reasons why every female should have a martial arts training atleast for 2-3 years.



what you did was very mean and dirty, even if it was when you were just 14. It will leave a scar on the psyche of that girl forever, right? That memory of you. and it seems to be bothering you too. Good. You will never do such a thing again. Isnt that good for you and for all the little girls out there?
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by Mayavi Morpheus » Tue Jun 27, 2006 12:31 am

I used to take bus to college and it used to be jam packed during rush hour. One day I felt a hand trying to grope me. Initially I thought that it just was in the wrong place but then I realized he was feeling for my genitals. I looked up and saw this neatly dressed office going man in his 40's and before I could say anything he jumped off the bus. I had this experience couple more times. After that I made up my mind that I am not going to be quiet next time it happens. Sure enough it happened again and this time it was a man of around 25 trying to feel me... I caught his hand and yelled at the top of my lungs 'why the fuk are you groping me, are you fuking gay?' in the crassest of the telugu and followed it with some expletives :lol: Every one in the bus looked at him and he was so embarassed that he immediately got down the bus.



If this thing happens to a man in Hyderabad, I do not want to know what happens to women travelling by bus. I know many college students with bikes drive upto women, slow down and smack their backs or grab their boobs and speed away. I do not know what kinda satisfaction these sick pervets get by doing that but it really effects the girls... my friend was hit so hard from the back that she fell down in gravel and cried for a long time.
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by Akshay » Tue Jun 27, 2006 2:50 am

Arch.. I agree it was pathetic of me. The article made me look back into my own life and realise I was one of those incriminated. Measuring by the reported prevalence of this issue, it stands to reason the criminals abound as much as the victims. So just wanted to see how common it is in the random sample of this DB members.
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Groping....on a bus or a local train!!

by Bindaas » Tue Jun 27, 2006 9:54 pm

[b] Wahhhhh... :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: Why such a hue and cry if you were groped...enjoy the moment and forget it...like some quick sex! Wats wrong in being GROPED in a public place...on a bus or a train for that matter! I was once in Mumbai and after landing at the Airport in the morning I took a train to Churchgate. While standing near the door... a decentlooking and dressed guy came and stood next to me. He moved closer to me taking advantage of the rush hour crowd. Within no time I had his hand GROPING me and feelin for my tool... I wont deny I waz aroused and he kept on giving me a good time.... I was rock hard and he kept on groping me and fondling me! He got bolder cause I was silent and started to unzip me...I coolly took his hand and moved it away! He smiled and I smiled and both went to our different ways!....Waz it any wrong???? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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by Mayavi Morpheus » Wed Jun 28, 2006 12:21 am

Nothing wrong if you swing that way. Some of us dont. And when it comes to women, not every one enjoys 'quick sex' with every tom _ and harry in public places. Just because you managed to get a hard on doesn't give you a licence to go around groping people.
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Re: Groping....on a bus or a local train!!

by Cragg » Wed Jun 28, 2006 11:28 am

Bindaas wrote:[b] Wahhhhh... :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: Why such a hue and cry if you were groped...enjoy the moment and forget it...like some quick sex! Wats wrong in being GROPED in a public place...on a bus or a train for that matter! I was once in Mumbai and after landing at the Airport in the morning I took a train to Churchgate. While standing near the door... a decentlooking and dressed guy came and stood next to me. He moved closer to me taking advantage of the rush hour crowd. Within no time I had his hand GROPING me and feelin for my tool... I wont deny I waz aroused and he kept on giving me a good time.... I was rock hard and he kept on groping me and fondling me! He got bolder cause I was silent and started to unzip me...I coolly took his hand and moved it away! He smiled and I smiled and both went to our different ways!....Waz it any wrong???? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:




Why didnt u exchange ur numbers and start a bindaas groping relationship. An exemplary one.



You are not just supporting M*** F*** gropers but u r also humiliating the innocent victims.
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by Fun Kay » Wed Jun 28, 2006 1:41 pm

There's a certain state in India very famous for eve-teasing....try living there....u'll learn to be VERY VERY careful while going out in public...esp if ur female....
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by Bimbette » Wed Jun 28, 2006 3:02 pm

Any girl will have more than one instance of something like this happening.



It makes me sick to think of it.



Akshay, it's commendable that you disclosed what you did on a public forum. The fact that you realised what you did was wrong is important.



I hope other guys reading this topic will realise how violated a girl can feel if they were to do something of that sort.



Arch, u actually did that??? Kudos to you!



Men get groped too? :shock: Uggghh.
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by HotShorts » Wed Jun 28, 2006 11:48 pm

Bimbette wrote:...Men get groped too? :shock: Uggghh.
:roll: tell me abt it...:(



i too had similar experiences in city busses- respectable looking middle aged men or sleazy looking taporis groping me.



i usually grab the finger and bend it backwards making the perv scream :evil:
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Re: Groping....on a bus or a local train!!

by indiabo » Sat Jul 22, 2006 3:30 pm

Cragg wrote:
Bindaas wrote:[b] Wahhhhh... :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: Why such a hue and cry if you were groped...enjoy the moment and forget it...like some quick sex! Wats wrong in being GROPED in a public place...on a bus or a train for that matter! I was once in Mumbai and after landing at the Airport in the morning I took a train to Churchgate. While standing near the door... a decentlooking and dressed guy came and stood next to me. He moved closer to me taking advantage of the rush hour crowd. Within no time I had his hand GROPING me and feelin for my tool... I wont deny I waz aroused and he kept on giving me a good time.... I was rock hard and he kept on groping me and fondling me! He got bolder cause I was silent and started to unzip me...I coolly took his hand and moved it away! He smiled and I smiled and both went to our different ways!....Waz it any wrong???? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


Why didnt u exchange ur numbers and start a bindaas groping relationship. An exemplary one.

You are not just supporting M*** F*** gropers but u r also humiliating the innocent victims.








thats too great of a reply. I think everyone should be beware of this person.



i would like one such nice incident. it was chand raat ( a day before eid) and i was wandering here and ther in packed madina road . suddently 3 metres away a burkha clad slapped a bald man. i dont know wat he did but obviously it was groping wat made me remeber is that on that night everyone out there became brother of that ( though do not want) lady had a full bashing practice at that person. that was the lesson which made me senses chilled to see how brutal lesson he got but worth.
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Re: Groping....on a bus or a local train!!

by DRS » Mon Jul 24, 2006 2:39 am

Bindaas wrote: Wahhhhh... :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: [b]Why such a hue and cry if you were groped...enjoy the moment and forget it...like some quick sex! Wats wrong in being GROPED in a public place...on a bus or a train for that matter! I was once in Mumbai and after landing at the Airport in the morning I took a train to Churchgate. While standing near the door... a decentlooking and dressed guy came and stood next to me. He moved closer to me taking advantage of the rush hour crowd. Within no time I had his hand GROPING me and feelin for my tool... I wont deny I waz aroused and he kept on giving me a good time.... I was rock hard and he kept on groping me and fondling me! He got bolder cause I was silent and started to unzip me...I coolly took his hand and moved it away! He smiled and I smiled and both went to our different ways!....Waz it any wrong???? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:




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is he ?

by indiabo/khan » Mon Jul 24, 2006 3:08 pm

Q describe bindaas?



A pervert.





I hated ur view man. ur a pervert who is highly desperate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



i too watch porn, sometimes give a look at good girl. but fully rwespect their modesty.



u must love to be groped isnt it ??
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Re: Ever (been) groped in the bus?

by Kartheek » Mon Jan 03, 2011 9:40 pm

Hi Hyd,

I think men groping men is not uncommon.

When I was studying 10+2, I used to go to my college by public transport. Once it happened that a man around 35-40 years old sat beside me. He took my hand initially and started caressing. I was shocked and was so scared that I didnt do anything. Later, he placed my hand on his tool and started rubbing. I was like, about to cry.. but didnt. This happened for about 30 mins and then I got down. It was really scary.

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Re: Ever (been) groped in the bus?

by RegretsaBitch » Thu May 26, 2011 3:40 am

im young now....when i was before being a teen like 9 or 10......i groped a girl in my class,and she used to cry and at the time it didnt make me feel bad,fast forward 4 years and i wish shed come and shoot me,she turned out to be one of the sweetest and prettiest girls ever......and i regret everything i did to her and i wish i cood take it all back,i wish......i wish shed give me a chance to walk up to her and say"i know you hate,and i dont want you to not hate me,i feel dead on the inside for doing it and i wish i could take it all back,if not for my mind then your fears and what you never want to know what its like,to have somones hands on you where you cant move or scream...i need forgiveness,for my sin.....but i only want your forgiveness if you can give it.....cause i loved you then and i love you now"........... RegretsaBitch
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Re: Ever (been) groped in the bus?

by hirtsy6 » Wed Aug 17, 2011 6:07 pm

well not really, but i had it in a train
Because it was full, i had to stand, and there was a guy coming closer to me and stood right behind me instead standing in empty spot. i didn't know what he was doing, but i felt that his ***** touch my behind over and over, and i was very shocked..

Then i moved, i think he was an exhibtionist
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Re: Ever (been) groped in the bus?

by Holly » Fri Nov 06, 2015 8:08 pm

Hi guys!

It's only happened a couple of times. But I'm in London UK now.

I'm a bit curious how it will be when I go to India as a white blonde girl. I'm coming next month I hope.

Anyway, I think iw a girl is dressed conservative guys should not grope her as she don't want it.

But if I go on a train in India dressed in short or a short skirt, I don't think I can be angry at men groping me. I can say no if I don't like it. But not be angry, I mean dressing like that in place where most dress conservative is like inviting guys.

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