I stay abroad, due to various reasons my first marriage ended because I was arrested with my family (Mother, Father, brother & brother-in-law) against a dowry case. The case registered may have 5% truth and 95% was false, anyway the day I was arrested I released and the same evening our marriage ended up. After doing all this there was no chance for me or my family to accept the lady as my wife or daughter-in-law.
Even if I accepted her I would be zero in the eyes of my family but still I don't want to breakup so I gave her a last chance, I told her to accompany me abroad so that we will have a peaceful life, she was bothered about her government job and moreover she don't want to continue. I am not saying that she was 100% wrong, both were partially wrong.
Now, my son is with my wife, he is about 9 years now, while break-up I signed a contract that there will be no relationship and I will not claim my son. Fine, I will not claim because I agreed the contract but can I meet my son???
I wanted to meet him legally but there are 2 things which stops me, to continue her life my wife has only one ray of hope that is my son and I don't want to disturb her and give her mental torture. I always thought that my approach will disturb her mentally, further they have settled in thier own way so my approch will shake them.
Always I miss my son, though I am married and have 3 kids and still I am staying abroad with my family. I love my first son but cannot understand how he feels about me and what her mother told him about me?? I am not that type who scold wife, during my relationship neither I bet her one time not I said a single bad word. We are from Hyderabad and we know families who do so many things and life goes on.
But my end is very different, I never assumed it so. Parents plays a vital role in preserving the marriages, my father in law underestimated me and his over confidence resulted so. I always use to pray for my wife, even today I remember her in my special prayers. She was my first love and I cannot forget her.
Will I be able to meet my son? Will he come back to me or is he willing to meet me? there are 100 of questions coming in my mind.
Please advice, how can I meet my son or shall I just wait till the time comes. I am helpless? How and how and how?