dekho bhai pehle to rishta lagnaich badi lambi kahani rehti.chalo shuru karinge....
pehle rasam hota (hau hamare hyderabad mein engagement ku rasam bolte) aur shadi ki tareeq tai hoti.
ek paumes ka rasam bolke bi hota , isme maal idhar ka udhar hota.
finally shaadi se 5 din pehle manje bithate,ghar mein mandak (mandap) baandhte. ladka ya ladki jo bhi ho unku peelay kapde pinake, haldi se lep lagate ek ke baad ek rishtedaaran. phir gulposhi hoti dula/dulan ki, phir unke ammi abba ki , aur sab logan kapde banate.
shaadi ka ghar bole to sab rishtedaaran aajate rehne ke liye, ya nai to har din kai na kai se khana aata. phir shaadi se ek din pehle saanchak mehendi hoti, agar ekich raat mein hui to bada mazaa aata.
saanchak mein dule waale dulan ke ghar aate, gulposhi karte aur dulan ku kapde bi dete shayad. in between thode buddiyan nuqs nikaalte har kaam mein!
dule waale jateich dulan waale nikalte (after giving full time to the ladies to change into another set of clothes!!), kashtiyan idar se udar hote!! dule ki gulposhi karte saaliyan, saale side mein thairke bakwaas karte. ye time dula bhot demand dikhata aur satata sabku, bhot mazaa aata, phir finally angoothi pehenne ke baad paise deta saale saaliyon ku. ek aur mauqa miltea apne buddiyon ku pukara karne ka!!
phir dusre din johai shadi hoti, ladki wale pure intezaamon mein lageve rehte, zanana dulan ku tayyar karta aur beauty parlour mein aade se zyaada din nikal jaata. dule wale ki side bi yeich kahani, apna dula bichara ek ghante mein tayyar hojaata.
bade buzrukan jaldi karo jaldi karo bolte rehte ..."qazi saab aake chale gaye to phir pakad ke laana mushkil rehta isliye jaldi karna"
Nikah hota, agar khana hai to dinner shuru hota aur dula bichara galle milte milte thak jaata, dulhan baithe baithe thak jaati. sab mehmaana jaane ke baad, khali rishtedaaran rehte jab jalwa hota, pehli baar dula dulan bazu baithte, phir vidaai hoti
dusre din valima hota, ye ladke waale karte..aur phir paanch jumaagiyan hote.
mereku jitta malum bola...aaplogon ku aur malum hai to bolo.