Who is the loser? The boy or the girl?

by **guess** » Thu Jun 27, 2002 12:30 am

hi shahed...don mix up prostitution with sex (as between a boy and a girl)....if both r majors ...there is no legal rule that stops them from having safe sex...and coming to the raids ....thats done only when there is no licence for prostitution....u might be knowing that prostitution is as well allowed as long as it is licenced....

by **hardcoder** » Fri Jun 28, 2002 12:30 am

guess: we are discussing it from a moralistic point of view. the law may legalize hardcore porn too, but does it mean that we have to do it just because it is there? do we have to gamble in lotteries just because the law permits us? the law permits it because there are many offenders who will keep breaking the law and I guess the law follows the saying - when you can\'t beat them, join them. In this case, the law modifies itself to suit the offenders. we have a head and brains and thinking power in our heads. We need to use them and do accordingly.

by **guess** » Fri Jun 28, 2002 12:30 am

absolutely shahed.....thats the reason why ...i said it was immoral and not illegal...i never meant that every thing that is legal is moral....cheers...!!

by **Srinu** » Fri Jun 28, 2002 12:30 am

i think the discussion has come a long long way from where it started from... but to the original question from aparna... i think the loser is the person who had interest in the first place. if the guy took the girl for a ride then the girls the loser... and if the girl used the guy for a good time.. the guys the loser. and if both of them were serious... they got to work it out.. if they cant... they are both losers.

by **Tyler Hans** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 2:56 pm

Sorry, I was searching thru google when I came across this message and just felt like writing. In as much as we can deny the fact that all people are grouped up with some rules which bind them to the society and people find it very hard to overcome these rules. Its all a farce, believe me. As for ur question..... Who is the loser... guess nobody is really the loser and both the people are the losers.

Nobody is the loser, since if the boy/girl survive the initial stage of loss and continue with life... people around and time will take care of the person ... let us say the whole world seems beautiful again... and birds chirping and all that. Believe me it only takes time to get out of it. I dont deny that true love does haunt you and make u feeling remorse... but life goes on... and u get along with a new "hubby" for that matter.

Both are the losers, since they in effect couldnt be together. ... and in this they have failed.

There can be a hundred reasons if u want to say no... and hundred solutions to solve ur problems..... Its only the path u chose and the conviction you have.... Dont worry too much about these things.... When people have made decisions ... they should always bind themselves towards them with pride and conviction.

Sorry,, if it is something over - reacting ... But seriously... I know.. I have experienced... and I believe, there is nothing more scary in this world... than looking at urself in the mirror.... when u have failed ...and u did some1 wrong.

Move on... Get Busy living or get busy Dying....

DO it ... but with conviction ... as i said.. reasons are to satisfy u ... worry about the person in the mirror... U !

This is a general thought... u never has to mean U in strict sense.. its just a reply to the answer any girl would have asked

Shankar

by **Habitual Perfectionist** » Fri Jan 28, 2005 11:08 pm

Kya khoda re baap....

3 saal baad...egjuktli

by **CtrlAltDel** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 12:36 am

any prizes for guessing who 'hardcoder' at the top of the page is?

by **the lizard of Oz** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 12:42 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:any prizes for guessing who 'hardcoder' at the top of the page is?

U?

by **Arti** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 12:49 am

Oh well... I found this thread so funny... in a really stupid sense... I don't think anyone had any idea what was being discussed... including the person who started it!!!!

by **Arti** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 12:50 am

Tyler Hans wrote:Sorry, I was searching thru google when I came across this message and just felt like writing.

Sorry to ask... but what exactly were you searching for on google that you landed here... on this discussion thread????

by **The Jackal** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 12:56 am

the lizard of Oz wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:any prizes for guessing who 'hardcoder' at the top of the page is?

U?

Its Lonewolf.

by **CtrlAltDel** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 12:56 am

Arti wrote:
Tyler Hans wrote:Sorry, I was searching thru google when I came across this message and just felt like writing.
Sorry to ask... but what exactly were you searching for on google that you landed here... on this discussion thread????

i think he was searching for the usual things a lonely male searched for on the net

and he landed up here! :lol:

@lizzie: its not me....he's not posting since a few weeks...and he's in US...

by **Arti** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 1:00 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:
Arti wrote:
Tyler Hans wrote:Sorry, I was searching thru google when I came across this message and just felt like writing.
Sorry to ask... but what exactly were you searching for on google that you landed here... on this discussion thread????
i think he was searching for the usual things a lonely male searched for on the net and he landed up here!

@lizzie: its not me....he's not posting since a few weeks...and he's in US...

Oh CADeshwara... is that experience talking?

by **CtrlAltDel** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 1:07 am

Arti wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
Arti wrote:
Tyler Hans wrote:Sorry, I was searching thru google when I came across this message and just felt like writing.
Sorry to ask... but what exactly were you searching for on google that you landed here... on this discussion thread????
i think he was searching for the usual things a lonely male searched for on the net and he landed up here!

@lizzie: its not me....he's not posting since a few weeks...and he's in US...
Oh CADeshwara... is that experience talking?

:lol:

frankly, there was a time when i did use net for 'those' purposes....

..and show me a male who claims he hasnt used net for 'that' and i'll show u a potential liar...

by **Arti** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 1:10 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:
Arti wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
Arti wrote:
Tyler Hans wrote:Sorry, I was searching thru google when I came across this message and just felt like writing.
Sorry to ask... but what exactly were you searching for on google that you landed here... on this discussion thread????
i think he was searching for the usual things a lonely male searched for on the net and he landed up here!

@lizzie: its not me....he's not posting since a few weeks...and he's in US...
Oh CADeshwara... is that experience talking?
:lol:

frankly, there was a time when i did use net for 'those' purposes....

..and show me a male who claims he hasnt used net for 'that' and i'll show u a potential liar...

matlab ab woh time gaya?

by **CtrlAltDel** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 1:16 am

Arti wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
Arti wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
Arti wrote:
Tyler Hans wrote:Sorry, I was searching thru google when I came across this message and just felt like writing.
Sorry to ask... but what exactly were you searching for on google that you landed here... on this discussion thread????
i think he was searching for the usual things a lonely male searched for on the net and he landed up here!

@lizzie: its not me....he's not posting since a few weeks...and he's in US...
Oh CADeshwara... is that experience talking?
:lol:

frankly, there was a time when i did use net for 'those' purposes....

..and show me a male who claims he hasnt used net for 'that' and i'll show u a potential liar...
matlab ab woh time gaya?

yup! 'those' sites bore me now... :roll:

....

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 1:22 am

yeh 'that' kya hai

by **Arti** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 1:22 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:yup! 'those' sites bore me now.......

oh well

by **CtrlAltDel** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 1:36 am

Mayavi Morpheus wrote:yeh 'that' kya hai

the Encarta site :roll:

by **Habitual Perfectionist** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 2:24 am

CtrlAltDel wrote:
Mayavi Morpheus wrote:yeh 'that' kya hai
the Encarta site

Don't tell me that a search for "Encarta" brought him to FHDB.

by **Arti** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 9:30 am

Habitual Perfectionist wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
Mayavi Morpheus wrote:yeh 'that' kya hai
the Encarta site

Don't tell me that a search for "Encarta" brought him to FHDB.

OK MM, don't tell him :wink:

by **CtrlAltDel** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 10:51 am

Habitual Perfectionist wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
Mayavi Morpheus wrote:yeh 'that' kya hai
the Encarta site
Don't tell me that a search for "Encarta" brought him to FHDB.

now that we have typed that word, it would

by **Arti** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 2:22 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:
Habitual Perfectionist wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:
Mayavi Morpheus wrote:yeh 'that' kya hai
the Encarta site
Don't tell me that a search for "Encarta" brought him to FHDB.
now that we have typed that word, it would

Yeah... and then CADeshwara will also be available through a google search... and years later, people will think there really was an Indian God with that name!!!

by **niky** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 3:02 pm

hey Aparna!

well .............. it depends on the kind of relationship one has had, i mean if the guy was really into it and the girl wasnt, then its the guy who loses and vice versa. even otherwise, sum ppl are good at handling the most intimate breakups, so it all depends on if u want to lose urself than, being the loser!

by **niky** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 3:03 pm

hey Aparna!

well .............. it depends on the kind of relationship one has had, i mean if the guy was really into it and the girl wasnt, then its the guy who loses and vice versa. even otherwise, sum ppl are good at handling the most intimate breakups, so it all depends on if u want to lose urself than, being the loser!

Who is the loser? The boy or the girl?