well, so u have met someone who has lived longer than you and tuned out to be smarter. and talking about complex, dont u think that having a complex is more a projection of our own insecurities rather than real differences in intelligence. and honestly, isnt it a question of u being a better person today rather than being better than someone else, male or female? if we really could think above gender/age and factors like that, and looked at life as a competition with yourself, where the race is between, you yesterday, you today, and you tomorrow....then you r a truly mature person!!!