Poor Husband suffering from in-laws behaviour

[Happy Husband]

Hi,



I really appreciate haawa's post.



I have gone through Dr.Phil's website. I found some good articles there.



I know my wife loves me but she is facing some problem because of her her ego and her parents nature.



According to Dr.Phil, I am a good protector and a good provider.



And I tried myself to become a good leader and a good teacher, but failed.



And the reason I came to know that :



** Whenever I tried to become a good leader, my in-laws interfere in my house.



** Whenever I tried to become a good teacher , my wife's ego couldn't accept



But now I am in control..and gain the confidence.

[Happy Husband]

Hi,



I came to know that my brother-in-law is here in hyderabad.

He is staying somewhere in ameerpet.



Actually he was staying with me since last 8 months , he has completed his BE and trained in mobile technology here. When my in-laws took my wife and daughter he also supportted them..



I had treated him as my younger brother and provided all help he needed when he was in my house. But he understand me and he is a good person also.



Now he is in hyderabad.. as I already told you I have purchased a flat here and my father-in-law also purchased a flat in same apartment.



But no body has seen him in my apartment.

[CtrlAltDel]

so what is your point?

[Happy Husband]

:? so what is your point?

Some good things are happening now.. my in-laws have submitted their faults.



At least they will think 100 times before coming to my house.



My brother-in-law is little bit dependent on me..as he always seek my advise for his career. Now he cannot come to my house as his sister is not with me.



Anyhow my wife will come next month.. but still i am not aware what is in her mind.

[CtrlAltDel]

Anyhow my wife will come next month...

congratulations!

but still i am not aware what is in her mind.

dont worry...u'll know in 5 minits after she returns!

[Happy Husband]

dont worry...u'll know in 5 minits after she returns!

yeah... you are right..



I hope she will not have any complain against me.

[CtrlAltDel]

I hope she will not have any complain against me.

dont try too hard to please her...and if she tries to complain again, for god's sake be firm with her and give a stern warning.

[Betty]

I hope she will not have any complain against me.

dont try too hard to please her...and if she tries to complain again, for god's sake be firm with her and give a stern warning.

CAD, you are slowly giving me an impression of being a wife -beater

[Happy Husband]

CAD, you are slowly giving me an impression of being a wife -beater

No betty..



I never create any problems ... But what CAD suggests is that.. i should not tolerate if my wife does something wrong. I have to dominate and clear all the misunderstandings before it explodes.



anyway I'll not allow the evil to enter in my wife's brain.

[CtrlAltDel]

CAD, you are slowly giving me an impression of being a wife -beater

:shock:



read this:

what CAD suggests is that.. i should not tolerate if my wife does something wrong. I have to dominate and clear all the misunderstandings before it explodes

...X-actly! keeping quite listening to nonsense wud bring him back to square one

[Happy Husband]

Hi,



Still my mother-in-law is playing some foul game there



I think she is taking her last chance... she is calling all my relatives and complaining about me , about my parents , about my brother and sister.



And I am sure my father-in-law doesn't know anything about that. As there is a cold war is going on between my FIL and MIL



My mother-in-law and my wife have started doing these mischiefs..



Whoever got their call, informed me everything.. but my relatives didn't talk with them much. Nobody beleives them at all..



But I'll let them do whatever then can... I have to win the evil ..

I know their intention is to make me angry .. But I have come far away from their politics Ha Ha

[CtrlAltDel]

why dont u hire a hitman and do away with yr MIL...?

i am sure yr FIL wud be happy too

[Happy Husband]

why dont u hire a hitman and do away with yr MIL...?
i am sure yr FIL wud be happy too

Hi CAD, I could have done that three years before , what you said here..



But now I am doing like that only...



I mean killing the snake without breaking the stick

[CtrlAltDel]

why dont u hire a hitman and do away with yr MIL...?
i am sure yr FIL wud be happy too

Hi CAD, I could have done that three years before , what you said here..

But now I am doing like that only...

I mean killing the snake without breaking the stick

u r poisoning her???

[Happy Husband]

No CAD... I was taking poison without any hesitation BEFORE...



Now I have become such a person, no poison can damage me.



I am living a very comfortable life here, without hurting anybody.



I hope my wife will mend her ways..

[Happy Husband]

Hi,



I am bringing my mother to my house.

After a long convinsion , my mother agreeed to come here for 10-15 days.



My parents have done everything for me, but after marriage they avoided to come to my house. The reason I don't want to compalin again



Now I am staying here alone for almost two months.



So I told my parents, don't you care your son ? , it's your house, don't fear my wife or in-laws.. You stay with me , I need the food you prepare..



So next monday my mother will arrive here.. I am happy now.

[san]

aaaawwww how sweet. what else r parents for eh?

[CtrlAltDel]

aaaawwww how sweet. what else r parents for eh?

[Happy Husband]

Thanks for be with me for all the days...



I refresh this topic 1000 times a day..



And I feel as I have got a prize when somebody post a reply...



BTW HAVE YOU NOTICED HOW I HAVE BEEN CHANGED FROM A POOR HUSBAND TO A HAPPY HUSBAND.



But one thing sometimes bother me, still my wife is going strong..with the help of her parents. But it doesn't matter.. Now I am not a weak person.. I can take control of everything .. I can dominate everything..



Now I am earning 45k per month.. and i haven't given a single penny to my parents .. reason you all know .. Let my parents enjoy his son's earning for some days..



Anyway my father is a very reputed doctor ( surgery specialist) Now he is the Chief District Medical Officer in orissa. He has all comforts .. from orissa govt. He has given so many new lifes to his patients. We have blessings from all poor man.



I'll buy some good saree and cloths for them and I am planning to go Puttaparthy with my parents.

[Happy Husband]

Hi,



yesterday night my apartment builder met me and told me that my FIL called him .



The builder told me that my FIL is coming to hyderabad to pay Rs3 lakh to the builder. As you know My FIL also purchased a flat in my apartment.



But i don't have any information about this. I mean whether he is coming or not.. if he is coming is he coming alone or bringing my wife and daughter... I have no idea at all..



Let's us what is happening today..

[Happy Husband]

Hi,



My FIL didn't come yesterday.. he is playing some tricks..

He wants me to get confused and do some wrong..



But I am really keeping my cool..and living a neutral life here.



It's almost one month .. there is no talk between me and my wife..



But I'll keep my patience.. I'll let them down ...



If I win this emotional battle, I will win everything...

[CtrlAltDel]

Hi,

My FIL didn't come yesterday.. he is playing some tricks..
He wants me to get confused and do some wrong..

But I am really keeping my cool..and living a neutral life here.

It's almost one month .. there is no talk between me and my wife..

But I'll keep my patience.. I'll let them down ...

If I win this emotional battle, I will win everything...

good for u! make them blink first and contact you.

[Happy husband]

Hi,



My wife called me today.



To be surprise she started scolding me very roughly.



"kya re , baat karna nahin aata kya.. kab tak aisa chup rahega.. etc etc"



I didn't say a word to her...and cut the phone line.



For 5-10 min's I couldn't keep my cool.. but I now I am normal..



Guys please advise me.. should I rect or keep silent

[CtrlAltDel]

Guys please advise me.. should I rect or keep silent

keep silent and cut the phone until she starts speaking politely.

it looks like she's blinked first! thats why she called u. the rough talk was just to cover the hurt ego. dont worry she will come around. u dont call her from now on. let her call.

[Happy Husband]

keep silent and cut the phone until she starts speaking politely.
it looks like she's blinked first! thats why she called u. the rough talk was just to cover the hurt ego. dont worry she will come around. u dont call her from now on. let her call.

But CAD ... what I feel is they are taking silent revenge on me. What they are telling there is ... "We will not send our daughter there. He will kill our daughter.." ( How nonsense is this)



I just heard this statement from one gentleman



They have made me a criminal



I cannot understand .. what will they do..

I think they don't want to build the relationship because of their ego..



They even don't care my daughter's future...