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Re: My wife called me today

by CtrlAltDel » Wed May 25, 2005 4:42 pm

Happy Husband wrote:... what I feel is they are taking silent revenge on me. What they are telling there is ... "We will not send our daughter there. He will kill our daughter.." ( How nonsense is this)

I just heard this statement from one gentleman

They have made me a criminal :shock:

I cannot understand .. what will they do..
I think they don't want to build the relationship because of their ego..

They even don't care my daughter's future...
if yr wife didnt want a relationship, she wudnt call u. relax for now....nothing wud happen.
wtf? i no longer care if my posts hurt yr feelings :roll:
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My father-in-law came to hyderabad

by Happy Husband » Wed May 25, 2005 6:14 pm

I just came to know that my father-in-law went to my apartment and talked with the builder and watchman.



His son is also here , somewhere in ameerpet. He was telling the watchman that his son will stay in his house ( In my apartment)



I'll go to my house at 7 PM.



Let's us see what is happening..today :(
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Re: My father-in-law came to hyderabad

by CtrlAltDel » Wed May 25, 2005 6:39 pm

Happy Husband wrote:I just came to know that my father-in-law went to my apartment and talked with the builder and watchman.

His son is also here , somewhere in ameerpet. He was telling the watchman that his son will stay in his house ( In my apartment)

I'll go to my house at 7 PM.

Let's us see what is happening..today :(
if u meet yr dad in law, remind him that u married his daughter, not his son...:roll:
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Re: My wife called me today

by Kavita » Wed May 25, 2005 8:50 pm

Happy husband wrote:Hi,

My wife called me today.

To be surprise she started scolding me very roughly.

"kya re , baat karna nahin aata kya.. kab tak aisa chup rahega.. etc etc"

I didn't say a word to her...and cut the phone line.

For 5-10 min's I couldn't keep my cool.. but I now I am normal..

Guys please advise me.. should I rect or keep silent




Its good that your wife called up but I definitely feel bad about the way she spoke to you.



I think you should make it clear to them once for all (in a way no fault is on ur side) about what you think about the relationship and what you are expecting (if you havent done this before). I feel thier ego is unable to accept your move and are trying to create problems for you and/or make nonsense out of nothing.
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Some bad news

by Happy Husband » Wed May 25, 2005 10:18 pm

Hi,



My Father-In-Law ( FIL) played a ugly game here.

When I returned my house I met the builder and watchman.



My FIL told them some bad things to them, he complained against me..and he told that he is not going to send his daughter. Also he told that my daughter will join a school there. My son-in-law is so and so etc etc etc..



But people over here know me better... So they told MY FIL , you should not interfere in your daughter's house, we know Chandra Sekhar is a very nice person. he can look after your wife very well ..you are just spoiling your daughter's future. He has built a new house for your daughter..she can live happily. So bring your daughter and her child asap.



After that My FIl told them that Ok I'll hand over my daughter to my son-in-law but you have to look after her.



But here those gentlemen said, your daughter can live happily but you don't listen to your daughter and let them live happily and you don't interfere at all..



So friends what do you think ..........

The main problem is that they are all village persons , their mind is not that much civilised..



The ultimate solution is to forgive them what they are..
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by Rabab » Thu May 26, 2005 2:30 am

Interesting!!
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by Mayavi Morpheus » Thu May 26, 2005 10:08 am

Is this a Diary? :?
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I talked with my little daughter

by Happy Husband » Thu May 26, 2005 4:47 pm

Hi,



Just now I got a call from my in-laws house.

When I said hello, my daughter replied hello.



After 34 days I talked with my daughter ( 3 yr's old) .

She asked me : Daddy when will you return from office . What did you eat etc etc..



So I am feeling very happy now.
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by CtrlAltDel » Thu May 26, 2005 6:14 pm

good for u! :D



but be careful. i think they r doing this to emotionally blackmail u into calling their house or break your will.
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You are right

by Happy Husband » Thu May 26, 2005 11:27 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:good for u! :D

but be careful. i think they r doing this to emotionally blackmail u into calling their house or break your will.






yeah you are right.. they are expert in mind games...

Their intention is to make me fully depressed that I will be down or weak.After that they can capture me..





But now things are different.. as I am taking care of myself and avoiding those things which are not good for me.. ( In these days )
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by Rabab » Sat May 28, 2005 1:21 am

Poor Husband or Happy Husband



Your Story is So confusing....



:roll:
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by haawa » Sat May 28, 2005 6:06 am

Mayavi Morpheus wrote:Is this a Diary? :?




I think Poor/Happy Husband Should start his own Blog.. it makes more sense than a thread..
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Need advice

by Happy Husband » Wed Jul 27, 2005 6:21 pm

Hi,



I am fine here now .. After so much Halla Gulla ..( On June 12th 2005) I directly talked with my FIL. Itook him to a temple and told him everything clearly. And I also warned him not to interfere in my married life.



It seems they are very much frustrated. Whatever I said he agreed. And he is not interfering in my life since then. But they are staying in my apartment only. My wife visits her parents house everyday ( I have no objection anyway )



But The real problem is from my wife only. She wants to dominent .. she openly says me that your family member's are not allowed to my house. You have to stay away from your relatives ( parents brother sister etc etc )

One day a big quarell happend.. I slapped her 3-4 times as she is out of her mind. After that she never dared to talk me about my relatives.



But I don't know what is there in her mind.. as she is a very clever girl. She tell lie to her parents.. so I am nothing to her.



Need advice..
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Re: Need advice

by Betty » Wed Jul 27, 2005 6:47 pm

Happy Husband wrote:Hi,

I slapped her 3-4 times as she is out of her mind. After that she never dared to talk me about my relatives.




You hit her? That is such a lousy and cowardly thing to do...and you have the audacity to declare it on a DB :evil: :evil: :evil:
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by 3 T'z » Wed Jul 27, 2005 7:15 pm

Betty wrote:
Happy Husband wrote:Hi,

I slapped her 3-4 times as she is out of her mind. After that she never dared to talk me about my relatives.


You hit her? That is such a lousy and cowardly thing to do...and you have the audacity to declare it on a DB :evil: :evil: :evil:




:shock: Violence was probably da only element missin before in this Saga....!!

Sir! i think u n ur wife seriously need 2 visit some kind of a doc...for all kindz of probs.. (not to mention the rest of both the families !) ..i've never heard of such weird ppl...of ppl action so immature.. :roll:
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Re: Need advice

by lonewolf » Wed Jul 27, 2005 9:22 pm

Happy Husband wrote:I slapped her 3-4 times as she is out of her mind. After that she never dared to talk me about my relatives.

But I don't know what is there in her mind.. as she is a very clever girl. She tell lie to her parents.. so I am nothing to her.

Need advice..




First of all, NEVER resort to physical means to get your point across. It will only worsen your situation and relationship. You could even get arrested for it and she could cook up a "dowry harassment" case on you on basis of this. Also, don't take her silence as a sign of acquiescence or implicit agreement.



Haven't you tried talking to her? I mean talking with your mouth, not with your hands.
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by spamtaneous » Wed Jul 27, 2005 10:02 pm

nice story....ate a good 15 min of my precious time.....
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by KK » Thu Jul 28, 2005 2:46 am

Consider a change of place!
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I dare to win !!!!!!

by Happy Husband » Fri Sep 02, 2005 4:54 pm

Hi All,



Without doing anything I was being declared by my wife that I was a bad person.



You know she doesn't hesitate to tell false things against me to outside people like I beat her, I drink wine, I didn't give her money , I didn't love her etc etc and my relatives are so and so ...



And common sense ki baat hai ki outside people very easily believe her as she is a woman.. ( because of symphathy )



BUT THE TRUE FACT IS THAT SHE IS LIVING WITH ME LIKE A QUEEN.

I HAVE GIVEN HER A NEW HOUSE WILL ALL MODERN COMFORTS

I BOUGHT A CAR RECENTLY I TOOK HER FOR OUTING REGULARLY





But she is a stubburn ..and her parents are as well

Her parents are now staying in my apartment as my FIL bought a flat in my same apartment. They are going to stay here permanently and started threatening me If I do something then they will complain in police.

The best thing is that all my relative in our cast knew about their stupid nature and cut all relationship with them. They have no relatives even their blood relations are now far away from them



My FIL is encouraging my wife not to fear .. do whatever u do in your house.



One day I said myself this is ENOUGH .. after a big fight with my wife,FIL,MIL and BIL ..I went to police and gave a complaint to police..



The fact is they all have beaten me and I showed all my wounds with blood to police. Then police called all of them and gave a warning to them





After that my wife knew my power.. as she knew that day by day I am loosing my patience. Now I am staying in my house as a king...



My in-laws don't dare to interfere in my house .. they are staying in the ground floor ..



One day I scolded my wife with the words that she can understand..



I said ..you idiot you are eating and enjoying my property and supporting your father. Do u have any affair with your father ??? If so then get out from my house. If you want to stay with me then try to be a family member of my house. and bring back the respect and dignity of my house.



So gradually she stopped fighting with me..



Till now everything is going fine ...



Anyway I love my wife... as long as she loves me ...



Bye for now..
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by black wizard » Fri Sep 02, 2005 9:47 pm

^^^God have mercy
I ran into my ex-girlfriend the other day... I backed up and ran into her again... I miss her sometimes...
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by spamtaneous » Sat Sep 03, 2005 12:26 am

madynapu hatya in telugu

my wifes murder in hindi
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by akhilis2cool » Sat Sep 03, 2005 1:59 pm

black wizard wrote:^^^God have mercy
Dont tell him u READ all that :shock:
People are crazy, at times are strange. I am locked-in tight, I am out of range.
I used to care, but things have changed.
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BW Was Praying For "Mercy" ... On FH Readers ...

by HH » Sun Sep 04, 2005 11:36 am

akhilis2cool wrote:
black wizard wrote:^^^God have mercy *****
Dont tell him u READ***** all that :shock:




***** BW Was Praying For "Mercy" ... On FH Readers ...
8) :) :wink: :P
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Re: Poor Husband suffering from in-laws behaviour

by Speedseenu » Tue Sep 13, 2005 9:38 pm

Hey....why dont u think of changing ur Wife ?? 8) Just be urself and neve out urself down even if u are admitting the turth at times never.ever....Confidence drives half the way......Alrighty dude
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by rock_26iin » Tue Sep 13, 2005 9:43 pm

ROTF!!!!



How the heck did I manage to miss this thread!? :shock:



No offence, Happy Husband, but this thread is hilarious!! :lol:
Things are supposed to happen the way they happen. And the reason they happen the way the happen is because you try to make them happen in a certain way and may or may not be succesful.
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