\"Hyderabadi\", you say you were raised in USA. That means you are not a true Hyderabadi. Even if you were, your argument that a Hyderabadi should only marry a Hyderabadi doesn\'t hold water. What if Hyderabadis have to work only in Hyderabad? What if Hyderabadis have to live only in Hyderabad?
If everyone wants to protect his/her culture, well, we will have to go back and live in ancient time (and, not to forget, in caves). The internet that you\'ve used to voice out your opinion is bringing us closer to other cultures and, that, definitely has effect on all cultures. That doesn\'t mean that we should not use internet, does it?
Let\'s open our minds, we are in 2002 AD, not 2002 BC.