Do we write our own destiny ?..............

[Destiny\'s Child]

Do we write our own destiny or do you subscribe to the \'agar nasseb mein likha hai..\' view?

[shruti]

In a way yes.by the choices we make at the critical point inour lives.Some could be wrong choices,can be right ones,but yes,we do have influence over our destiny....but also there are those unforseen circumstances when things are not in our hands....

[Teacher]

This is a very important question. There are certain matters in our lives on which we have no power to change or choice. Like being an Indian, being son/daughter of so and so, color of skin, etc. etc. With respect to these matters, we have to say \"qismat ki baat hai .. \" But there are many many aspects in which we really do have choice and we do make use of this choice in our daily lives as well as at critical times when such a decision can change the entire course of life. Examples of such situations may be how well did you study, what course you took after graduation, which person do you marry, how well you took care of your parents, where do you live, what type of friends do you have etc. etc. In fact these are the decisions which will define your destiny to a large extent. Hence, every soul will be questioned about his choices on the day of judgement.